Poem: What a person with Alzheimer's would say

Frank Broyles, former football coach and athletics director at the University of Arkansas, experienced the devastating effects of Alzheimer's firsthand after his wife was diagnosed with the disease. Drawing from both his experiences as a coach and a caregiver, he wrote Coach Broyles' Playbook for Alzheimer's Caregivers as a resource to help others facing similar situations with their loved ones. At the end of the book is this poem, penned by an unknown author, which expresses for Alzheimer's patients what they cannot express themselves. In light of the recent unpleasantness, it is particularly appropriate to post it at this time.

Do not ask me to remember.  

Don't try to make me understand. 

Let me rest and know you're with me. 

Kiss my cheek and hold my hand.

I'm confused beyond your concept. 

I am sad and sick and lost. 

All I know is that I need you 

To be with me at all cost. 

Do not lose your patience with me. 

Do not scold or curse or cry. 

I can't help the way I'm acting, 

Can't be different though I try. 

Just remember that I need you, 

That the best of me is gone. 

Please don't fail to stand beside me, 

Love me til my life is done.